Making the call for yourself or a loved one to move into care is an impactful time in anyone's life — the process of downsizing and shifting can be overwhelming, and often it comes with some preconceived notions of how life is set to change.
There are many myths about care home living, but they don't do anyone any favours. So we turned to the team at Arvida retirement communities to get the facts. With more than 6,750 residents in a range of communities across the country and full continuum of care extending from independent living to full rest home, hospital and dementia-levels of care, they know what they're talking about — and can help put your mind at ease before making the move.
Myth: I'll lose my independence once I move into aged care
Many potential residents of assisted living might feel apprehensive about a loss of their 'normal' life, especially if they're leaving a home they've lived in for a long time — perhaps even raised a family in.
But moving into an Arvida community doesn't mean saying goodbye to your independence — in fact, it's quite the opposite. Arvida Wellness Manager Aleshia Rayner says residents' days are richly filled with a range of experiences and activities on offer, even if that is simply spending plenty of time at a local café; favourite restaurant or shopping centre.
While there are a multitude of activities and experiences on offer at each community, Rayner says what stands out for many residents "are the simple things".
"We know that not everyone wants to join a group and be part of an activity, so instead our team will empower our residents to get up at a time that works for them, enjoy a leisurely breakfast; taking the time to sit and watch the birdlife outside, walk in the garden or listen to the bees creating honey in the community beehive."
Myth: Living in a care centre will feel like being in hospital
If you've seen images of care homes in movies or television shows that give the appearance of poor light, out-of-date decor or clinical vibes, take a look at the vibrant, modern and architecturally-designed Arvida communities and think again. While they offer round-the-clock care, the communities are nothing like any hospitals we've ever had to visit.
"At Arvida we are passionate about challenging the way in which older New Zealanders experience aged care services," says Rayner. "We sincerely believe that we come to work in a person's home — we don’t ever expect a person to live in our workplace".
Check out the beautifully presented care rooms in the homely and welcoming Mayfair in Christchurch or the spacious rooms overlooking Hamilton city at Cascades.
Myth: Everyone in a care home gets treated the same
Don't fret about getting lost in the crowd. One of the things Arvida prides itself on is the use of the word community rather than 'home' — and that terminology is important when it comes to both individual and collective care.
"What makes a community are the people in it and an Arvida community recognises the unique individuality of every person who chooses to live there," says Rayner.
"Our wellness partners do not limit their time to ‘providing care’ — instead they work in partnership with each person to support their wellbeing."
Aleshia says Arvida runs on a belief that life in aged care is about "thriving rather than just surviving" — something that is most evident through their Attitude of Living WellTM .
With five pillars: Eating Well; Resting Well; Moving Well; Thinking Well and Engaging Well, each resident's preferences and routines are considered.
So whether you're looking for a rest home, hospital or specialised dementia care, you'll be well taken care of.
"What makes a community are the people in it and an Arvida community recognises the unique individuality of every person who chooses to live there."
Myth: Everything I need to know about a care home I'll find on the website
Reading hordes of info online can quickly become overwhelming. But Aleshia says that where possible, it's important to view communities in person to get an idea of the standard.
"It's important whenever possible to view a community with a family member. If they are going to be living there without you, being part of the decision will make the transition so much easier," she says.
She has some tips for those checking out a care centre.
"When viewing a retirement community, take note of the way in which people interact with you. Are they interested in you and your family members?" she says.
"The more they show a desire to understand and connect with you, the more likely they will be prioritising that when your family member moves in.
"Notice how the environment looks, smells and sounds. Ask about: daily routines; how the menu is decided; who would be supporting your family member; what are the types of activities on offer; does it ‘feel’ right?."
If you or a loved one are looking for a place to call home, there's a range of top-notch care options at Arvida communities around the country — to learn more, contact your local community or head to the website.
Article created in partnership with Arvida Retirement Communities.
